The Head & The Heart
The phrase "Use your head!" is one that I have employed more than once with all three of my boys. Usually, I've uttered it after they did something monumentally idiotic, which boys tend to do on occasion. I've also told them, "That's using the ole noodle!" when they did something brilliant, lest you think my platitudes only tend toward the negative. Most of us have had people say similar things to us at one point or another. We've been told to "put on our thinking caps," "sleep on it" when making decisions, and a host of other exhortations aimed at getting us to employ our brains. All of this is good advice, mind you. We must employ our heads from time to time to think before we act, jump, or speak to prevent ourselves from offending or harming others or damaging ourselves, for that matter. However, when we live too much in our heads, it can become a problem. Suppose our default is to overthink, fret, worry, and resort